1 - In verses 21 – 25, it says, "David sent Abner away in peace.” Why is that astonishing? What was the cost of peace?
Why is Joab angry about this? What does he want instead? Is Joab insubordinate in his questions to David? What does Joab suggest Abner's motives really were?
2 – In verses 26-30, Why does Joab murder Abner? What motives might he have that are not stated here? How does David distance himself from Joab's deed?
3 – In verses 31-39, how does David's command to Joab embarrass him? Why is Abner buried in Hebron and not in his hometown?
Why does David weep for Abner after all the harm he has done to David? Why is
Abner's death a cause for national mourning?
4 – How is David, "a prince of peace?" How is he a shadow, or type, of the Prince of Peace to come? Why is peace making so important to Jesus in his church?
What instructions has the Holy Spirit left to us for promoting peace? See Rom 14:19, 2 Cor 13:11, Heb 12:14, James 3:18, 1 Pet 3:10-11 & Eph 2:14.